Home Sweet Home (Updated)
I couldn’t help but cringe a bit when news of my native county crept up in several news stories about gay marriage in California, for example in this Wall Street Journal article:
June 17 marks the date that gay and lesbian couples can marry legally in California, following a landmark ruling by the state’s Supreme Court in May that struck down the ban on same-sex marriage. The day will be marked by joyous celebrations and eager couples earning a right they have waited years to obtain.
Yet, the occasion will also be punctuated by the division it creates throughout the state. On the one hand, San Francisco County has added additional staff and expanded hours so the clerk’s office can accommodate the surge in demand from same-sex couples seeking marriage licenses and wedding ceremonies….
In contrast, the Butte County clerk-recorder issued a June 11 news release saying her office will stop performing wedding ceremonies altogether–for gay and heterosexual couples.
For Rick Perlstein and others, actions like this last amount to nothing less than a twenty-first-century version of the massive resistance campaigns that followed Brown v. Board of Education. Until I looked into it, I was inclined to agree.
But it turns out that what’s going on in Butte County is much less sinister than the WSJ and others would have us believe. As this article from the Chico Enterprise-Record points out, Candace Grubbs, the Butte County Clerk-Recorder, isn’t doing anything to prevent couples from getting marriage licenses. Rather, Grubbs made a decision back in March–long before the California State Supreme Court decision on gay marriage–that for budgetary reasons her staff would no longer perform civil ceremonies at the county Administration Building. (In other words, the county staff won’t be doing any actual marrying.)
“Performing wedding ceremonies” are, it’s true, the words that the WSJ article uses, but the implication of the article is very clearly that Grubbs’s decision is supposed to be some kind of punitive action undertaken in response to the gay-marriage ruling.
Here’s how Grubbs explains what’s actually going on:
Grubbs told the E-R she recognized the timing of the announcement is unfortunate given the backdrop of gay marriage, but she said the events are unrelated.
“The decision to discontinue marriages is budgetary, and not political, or values,” Grubbs said.*
Grubbs said the decision to cease all civil marriages was made in March, when she was required to prepare her future year’s budget for submission to the county administration.
She said the county is not required by law to provide marriage services. Last year, marriage services generated only about $7,000 for her department, which she explained has to be financially self-supporting as far as clerk and recorder duties are concerned.
Grubbs said her office is going to hold two vacant positions open during the coming year, and there was no way to continue to do marriages with the smaller staff.
Now, of course I recognize that phrases like “events are unrelated” and “the decision…is budgetary” were often used as a kind of official code in the rhetoric of massive resistance, but in this case Grubbs really does seem to be speaking on the level. As the article goes on to note, couples who still want to be married at the county office can pay $50 to appoint a friend or relative as a single-day “marriage commissioner.”
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*Note: It’s worth mentioning that this last statement, as the E-R article tells us, is not exactly accurate. But the values that seem to have aided Grubbs’s decision aren’t the (anti gay marriage) values that the WSJ implies:
Grubbs said she does have a philosophical objection to her staff doing marriages, and it has nothing to do with the gender of the people being wed.
She said there is no private space in the county Administration Building that is suitable for a wedding.
“A marriage is a dignified personal event in a person’s life,” she said. Being married in an office lobby or in the public atrium of the Administration Building is not an appropriate venue for such a ceremony, Grubbs said.
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UPDATE (6/18): After conceding, as I did, that he might have been too quick to jump the gun, Perlstein points to a San Francisco Chronicle article that makes the same basic argument as the WSJ piece I quote above. For reasons I’ll get to, I’m still not convinced by either article, but I do want to clarify that here and in the post above I’m only talking about Butte County. It’s clear to me that the clerk-recorder of Kern County, the other county that gets mentioned in the same breath as Butte in all these articles, is very clearly reprising the Lester Maddox role that Perlstein originally suggested.
I’ve got two reasons, one negative and one positive, for doubting this to be the case in Butte County. (And trust me, neither of them have to do with native pride.) The negative reason is that no one’s been able to offer up any good evidence why we should doubt the reasons Grubbs gave. Contrary to the case of the Kern County Clerk-Recorder, there’s no evidence in the public record that Grubbs has ever said a negative thing about gay marriage. What’s more, in the E-R article, she was frank about the bad timing of the decision.
The positive reason is this post by gay blogger and Butte resident Richard Seward. Unlike the author of the Chronicle article, Seward was able to speak to Grubbs and says he came away convinced–despite his initial skepticism–of her good faith. Here’s his response to a doubtful commenter:
You know Karen, it is real easy to believe that Candace Grubbs is only stopping ceremonies for homophobic reasons … just like the Clerk in Kern County. You read the comments made by the Clerk in Kern County, the evasive twaddle, and you just know she is a homophobe.
But I spent a good 15+ minutes on the phone with Ms. Grubbs this morning. I probed this way and that. She sure had all the correct answers of a good business woman and a non-homophobe. I did not pick up ANY bias at all in her decision to stop the ceremonies … none at all. And I was looking for it.
She did not know me from Adam. She knew I was not a reporter and did live in the county. That is all she knew about me. But we had a most pleasant time on the phone … well I was migraining and not speaking very clearly so I had the sympathy thing going for me. But I really and truly did not pick up any bias.
I’m prepared to change my mind in a second on this if some new evidence comes to light, but failing that it seems to me that Ms. Grubbs deserves the benefit of our (possibly hasty) doubt.


Is it too late to get married to my partner tommorow?